We would always like to be different from how we are, we would like to resemble others, without thinking we can be worth too.

It is easier to examine others, to look for models that we like or would like to look like, we aim to be at the center attention, pleasure, being desired and above all not to struggle in order not to suffer.

We always compare what we are and what we should be.

This constant comparing ourselves to something or someone is the primary cause of our conflicts.

Why do you compare yourself to someone else?

If you don't compare yourself to another you will be what you really are.

You have a concept of what you should be and how you would like to act,

but always act completely differently.

So you see how the principles, the faiths and the ideals

They always lead to hypocrisy and a dishonest life.

It is ideal to produce the opposite of what one is.

Krishnamurti